Robert Neil Arnold, 69 of Mesa, AZ passed away on April 23rd, 2014. He was born in Los Angeles, CA on February 1, 1945 to Donald and Murriel (Mickie) Arnold, but his hometown was Lynwood, CA. where he lived out the first twenty years of his life. He served the city well by working with young people at the community center and parks and recreation department. He began his career in law enforcement in Costa Mesa, CA before moving his family to Dinuba, CA where he earned an AA degree from College of the Sequoias, Visalia, CA and a Bachelor of Science degree from California State University, Fresno. After a long career as a civil servant working as a police officer, police captain, recreation department director, school board member and community leader he retired in 2006. For a number of years he officiated high school sports as a referee for football and basketball games. He had a lifelong desire to make a positive influence on the youth of America. He was preceded in death by his mother Mickie. He is survived by his father Don, 90, of Klamath Falls, OR; his daughter Stacy Anderson, her husband Craig of Visalia, CA and their daughter Katie of Santa Barbara, CA; his son Robert Scott Arnold, his wife Diana and their son Justin of Woodburn OR; his brother Dan Arnold and his wife Cindy, their children Sean, Geoff, James and Becca of Depoe Bay OR.; His sister Peggy Cossairt and her husband Wayne of Grass Valley CA, their children, Rojean, Patric, LeAnne, Darrick, Mike, Andrew and Scott, along with many great nieces and nephews. He also leaves behind his fiancé of two years Judi Gerstenfeld, whom he reconnected with, after 50 years, from his high school days in Lynwood. His favorite pastimes included watching baseball and football and going to the games. As a novice poker play in 2006 he played Texas Holde-em in the World Series of Poker in Las Vegas and finished 29th in a field of over 6000 entrants. He enjoyed playing Bingo and Mexican Train with his many new friends at the American Legion, working in his garden, wood working projects and lounging in his hot tub. He loved to travel and take road trips with Judi and his two miniature schnauzers, Jake and Sierra. He will be deeply missed by all. A celebration of his life will be held in the near future with the date to be announced.
Bob you will be missed. It great getting know you again after 50 years
To the family of Bob, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you. Bob was an amazing person. He will be missed by many that knew him. We are gonna miss his posts here on Facebook. May you find comfort in sharing his many memories. R.I.P BOB !
Sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with the friends and family. R.I.P. Bob
To the Arnold Family and Dear Judi..Bob will be missed by All of Us from Lynwood that only new him through Facebook..Bob and Judi had such wonderful adventures that they shared with us..And Bob had that “Special” Smile..Please except Our Condolences and May Bob Rest In Peace..Love and God Bless, Char and My Richard
Don, Wayne, Peggy, Danny, and Cyndi, Stacey and Robert, I am so sorry for your loss. You know the Arnold home was my second home and Bobby never begrudged this kid from down the block a ride, or golf and ski lessons. He even taught me the Surfer Stomp at the Community Center! We finally reconnected on Face Book last year and shared so many memories of our lives as well as the lives of my Mom and Don from their school days in Colorado. I found many photos of Don as a kid and of Mickey and my Mom (in Vegas of course) and mailed them to Bobby. He was thrilled.
What a loss of a friend who did nothing but treat me well. Bobby will Rest in Peace now and is in heaven with Mickey and my Mom laughing as usual.
Judi, I do not have words for your loss. I have grown to know you so well and your pain has to be insurmountable, at this time. However, feel fortunate you once again found the love of your life. Some people never find it.
Love you all, BunBun
He will truly be missed. I just know he is up there organizing a Texas Hold Em tournament! His talents and friendship will be missed. God Bless you Judi, for the love you gave him on the earth. Love you, Willie and Melanie
I grew up in Dinuba and remember Bob as a Police Officer and he truly did have every kid in towns interest at heart. Years later I worked with Bob in Dinuba during the Wanamaker regime and beyond, and he was one funny guy. We pulled more gags on fellow employees than I can remember. I must share the most hilarious thing I remember.
Bob and the Public Works Superintendent spent a lot of time together during the work day. Where you found one, you found the other. They would occasionally, while on their lunch break, visit the local stock yard auction. Well, one afternoon, several people saw Bob an JB west bound from the stock yard in a marked black and white cruiser with a calf in the back seat with his head out the window, en-route to his new pasture. Over the years I would remind Bob of this and all I ever got was that famous grin on his face, the same grin as in the picture above.
My condolences to his family, he was a wonderful guy.
Judi
Thank you so much for organizing this tribute page. It is a great comfort to share memories and new stories of my brother-in-law. I’m so glad you found one another. You are a very special and wonderful lady.
Bob you will be missed. It great getting know you again after 50 years
To the family of Bob, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you. Bob was an amazing person. He will be missed by many that knew him. We are gonna miss his posts here on Facebook. May you find comfort in sharing his many memories. R.I.P BOB !
Sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with the friends and family. R.I.P. Bob
To the Arnold Family and Dear Judi..Bob will be missed by All of Us from Lynwood that only new him through Facebook..Bob and Judi had such wonderful adventures that they shared with us..And Bob had that “Special” Smile..Please except Our Condolences and May Bob Rest In Peace..Love and God Bless, Char and My Richard
Don, Wayne, Peggy, Danny, and Cyndi, Stacey and Robert, I am so sorry for your loss. You know the Arnold home was my second home and Bobby never begrudged this kid from down the block a ride, or golf and ski lessons. He even taught me the Surfer Stomp at the Community Center! We finally reconnected on Face Book last year and shared so many memories of our lives as well as the lives of my Mom and Don from their school days in Colorado. I found many photos of Don as a kid and of Mickey and my Mom (in Vegas of course) and mailed them to Bobby. He was thrilled.
What a loss of a friend who did nothing but treat me well. Bobby will Rest in Peace now and is in heaven with Mickey and my Mom laughing as usual.
Judi, I do not have words for your loss. I have grown to know you so well and your pain has to be insurmountable, at this time. However, feel fortunate you once again found the love of your life. Some people never find it.
Love you all, BunBun
He will truly be missed. I just know he is up there organizing a Texas Hold Em tournament! His talents and friendship will be missed. God Bless you Judi, for the love you gave him on the earth. Love you, Willie and Melanie
I grew up in Dinuba and remember Bob as a Police Officer and he truly did have every kid in towns interest at heart. Years later I worked with Bob in Dinuba during the Wanamaker regime and beyond, and he was one funny guy. We pulled more gags on fellow employees than I can remember. I must share the most hilarious thing I remember.
Bob and the Public Works Superintendent spent a lot of time together during the work day. Where you found one, you found the other. They would occasionally, while on their lunch break, visit the local stock yard auction. Well, one afternoon, several people saw Bob an JB west bound from the stock yard in a marked black and white cruiser with a calf in the back seat with his head out the window, en-route to his new pasture. Over the years I would remind Bob of this and all I ever got was that famous grin on his face, the same grin as in the picture above.
My condolences to his family, he was a wonderful guy.
Judi
Thank you so much for organizing this tribute page. It is a great comfort to share memories and new stories of my brother-in-law. I’m so glad you found one another. You are a very special and wonderful lady.