It can be difficult to find the words to share your feelings at the funeral of a loved one. Fortunately, poets throughout the ages have been creating prose that can help provide the backdrop for a special memory of your loved one. These poems are some of the most evocative, allowing you to share your feelings with the mourners at a memorial service.
If I should die before the rest of you,
Break not a flower nor inscribe a stone.
Nor, when I’m gone, speak in a Sunday voice,
But be the usual selves that I have known.
Weep if you must,
Parting is hell.
But life goes on,
So . . . sing as well.
Don’t think of him as gone away
his journey’s just begun,
life holds to many facets
this earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of him as living
in the hearts of those touched . . .
for nothing loved is ever lost
and he was loved so much.
You can shed tears that she is gone
Or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back
Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left.
I will lend you, for a little time,
A child of mine, He said.
For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he’s dead.
There is no night without a dawning
No winter without a spring
And beyond the dark horizon
Our hearts will once more sing . . .
For those who leave us for a while
Have only gone away
Out of a restless, care-worn world
Into a brighter day.
Grieving is a process, with each day taking us one step further down the path of life. It is our sincerest wish that these words will help you find comfort in the passing of your loved one. At Mountain View Funeral Home and Cemetery, our family has been taking care of families in the Mesa, Arizona area for over 60 years. Contact us at any time at 480-832-2850 or via email to wecare@mvfuneralhome.com to learn more about our beautiful memorial gardens and mortuary options.
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