Lois Joan McIntyre Bessette, 84, passed away August 18, 2011 in Chandler, AZ, free at last of the pain and confinements of her recent years. She was preceded in death by her mother Helen Hagy, first husband and father of her children Robert McIntyre, and just 2 weeks previous, eldest daughter Nancy Ann. Lois was born February 13, 1927 in Wilkes Barre, PA. An only child, she desired a large family and started young, marrying right out of high school and eventually having 9 children! She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother, and the emotional center of the family until the end. She had a sparkling personality that drew all towards her. A working mom, an exceptional seamstress, a fantastic letter writer, a lover of Oprah, a loving, caring woman of much laughter—this is how she will be remembered. Lois is survived by her beloved husband of 33 years, Michael D. Bessette of Chandler, AZ; daughters Susan and MaryAnne, son Kent of New London, CT; daughter Peg McKleroy and husband Chris of Los Altos, CA; daughter Christine Kerr and husband John of Oakland, CA; daughter Phyllis Graham and husband Chester of Fairview, TX; son Mark of Cooperstown, NY; son Andrew and wife Stacy of Tuscon, AZ; grandchildren Elizabeth, Christopher, David, Chris Jr. and Kevin; numerous treasured in-laws and nephews, nieces. Lois and Mike’s extended family and friends in AZ are invited to call on Monday, August 22 at 5:30 – 7:00PM for visitation followed by a service at Mountain View Funeral Home, 7900 East Main Street, Mesa, AZ 85207 (telephone 480 832 2850). Visit www.mountainviewfuneralhomeandcemetery.com for directions, to sign the family’s online register, or to send a condolence. Additionally, funeral services will be held at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons, 12 Ocean Ave. in New London, CT on Monday, August 29 at 11:00 AM. A private burial will take place at the Gurley Cemetery in Storrs, CT. Calling hours will be held in CT on Sunday, August 28 from 5:30 – 7:30PM at the funeral home. Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com for directions, to sign the family’s online register or to send a condolence.
Dearest Mike and family,
Vincent and I are saddened to hear of dear Lois’ passing. Lois was an extra special light in our lives,
and, we will miss her dearly.
We will remember her warm and gentle love, her beautiful accepting ways, her beautiful smile and sparkly eyes. We will remember her strength in the time of adversity, and, know that we have been blessed to have known her.
We hold dear, the memories of our beautiful holiday gatherings in Storrs. The amazing buffets, holiday surprises, games and gifts. We remember warmly, of our
gatherings in Sun Lakes, and her visit to our home in Ahwatukee.
We love you Lois.
Mike we wish you and your family, peace and love in these memories.
Love, Vincent and Susan
I offer my deepest sympathies to the Bessette family for the passing of this lovely woman, Lois. May God bless her soul and may she rest in peace. Lois and the family as a whole is in my prayers. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, and there is love and support even during such tragic times. God Bless. DNA
Mike,
I never had the privilege of meeting Lois. She sounds like the kind of person that would just light up the room when she entered. May your precious memories help as you go through these difficult days.
Sincerely,
Jeani Karubos
Rogers Receptionist
Mike and family,
You have my deepest condolences at this difficult time. I will remember Lois for her positive and warm disposition. May she now rest in peace.
Dear Mike & Family,
I am sorry for your loss and pray you can find the peace and support you need in this difficult time. May you remember and cherish the great times you had together and take comfort that she is at peace with all the beloved in heaven.
Dave Lipari
I am so sorry for your loss. May “the God of all comfort” (2 Corinthians 1:3,4) comfort and soothe your heart. His promises, found in the Holy Scriptures, can offer much hope. It assures us at John 5:28,29 that our loved ones will be remembered and brought back to life in the resurrection. Please allow God’s Word to strengthen you and help you to endure this most difficult time.
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Dearest Mike and family,
Vincent and I are saddened to hear of dear Lois’ passing. Lois was an extra special light in our lives,
and, we will miss her dearly.
We will remember her warm and gentle love, her beautiful accepting ways, her beautiful smile and sparkly eyes. We will remember her strength in the time of adversity, and, know that we have been blessed to have known her.
We hold dear, the memories of our beautiful holiday gatherings in Storrs. The amazing buffets, holiday surprises, games and gifts. We remember warmly, of our
gatherings in Sun Lakes, and her visit to our home in Ahwatukee.
We love you Lois.
Mike we wish you and your family, peace and love in these memories.
Love, Vincent and Susan
I offer my deepest sympathies to the Bessette family for the passing of this lovely woman, Lois. May God bless her soul and may she rest in peace. Lois and the family as a whole is in my prayers. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, and there is love and support even during such tragic times. God Bless. DNA
Mike,
I never had the privilege of meeting Lois. She sounds like the kind of person that would just light up the room when she entered. May your precious memories help as you go through these difficult days.
Sincerely,
Jeani Karubos
Rogers Receptionist
Mike and family,
You have my deepest condolences at this difficult time. I will remember Lois for her positive and warm disposition. May she now rest in peace.
Dear Mike & Family,
I am sorry for your loss and pray you can find the peace and support you need in this difficult time. May you remember and cherish the great times you had together and take comfort that she is at peace with all the beloved in heaven.
Dave Lipari
I am so sorry for your loss. May “the God of all comfort” (2 Corinthians 1:3,4) comfort and soothe your heart. His promises, found in the Holy Scriptures, can offer much hope. It assures us at John 5:28,29 that our loved ones will be remembered and brought back to life in the resurrection. Please allow God’s Word to strengthen you and help you to endure this most difficult time.